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$1.99: She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) (eBook) by Ian Kerner

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AuthorIan Kerner
PublisherWilliam Morrow
Publication dateOctober 13, 2009
Print length240 pages
Customer Reviews4.5⭐ / 8,565 ratings
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"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.


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AuthorIan Kerner
PublisherWilliam Morrow
Publication dateOctober 13, 2009
Print length240 pages
Customer Reviews4.5⭐ / 8,565 ratings
Great on Kindle


"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.


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Real gentleman always ask if she's through yet.
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😛 am I doing this right
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I've always considered myself a master at receiving head
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I wish I had this before my divorce... I was down there with a snorkel and compass.
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Got this used and the pages were stuck together.
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jrmanaYesterday 01:54 PM
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I got the audiobook, it's so creepy. It's like this dude has never actually been with a woman and wrote an entire book about what he'd do if he ever got a woman.
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I don't need no instruction manual.
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written by a dude
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there is no universal guide to pleasing anyone beyond this "ONE SIMPLE TRICK":

TALK TO YOUR PARTNER. TALK. COMMUNICATE. Here are some examples of things you can say:

"Do you like this?"
"Does this feel good?"
"Anything I could've done differently?"
"Faster? Slower?"
"Do you want to change positions?"
"I don't like *, can we do * instead?"
"I've always wanted to try *, would you be cool with that?"

If that seems awkward, just know that it's way more uncomfortable/awkward to be doing something physically wrong/painful/uncomfortable than to just say a few words that might make everything better for the rest of your sex life with that person. You are already being intimate with someone. A few words is way less awkward than what you are already doing with them.

Also, did you notice that your partner liked something? CONTINUE DOING THAT. REMEMBER IT AND DO IT AGAIN NEXT TIME.
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Quote from bsdc :
there is no universal guide to pleasing anyone beyond this "ONE SIMPLE TRICK":

TALK TO YOUR PARTNER. TALK. COMMUNICATE. Here are some examples of things you can say:

"Do you like this?"
"Does this feel good?"
"Anything I could've done differently?"
"Faster? Slower?"
"Do you want to change positions?"
"I don't like *, can we do * instead?"
"I've always wanted to try *, would you be cool with that?"

If that seems awkward, just know that it's way more uncomfortable/awkward to be doing something physically wrong/painful/uncomfortable than to just say a few words that might make everything better for the rest of your sex life with that person. You are already being intimate with someone. A few words is way less awkward than what you are already doing with them.

Also, did you notice that your partner liked something? CONTINUE DOING THAT. REMEMBER IT AND DO IT AGAIN NEXT TIME.
And the reciprocal is true. Don't be scared to tell us what you like or don't. I like it when I get sexy directional hints.Say Oh,yes, like that. Or whatever you prefer, if not. Speak up. I feel like asking if I can do it the way I like sometimes for a few minutes as well. Kind of like taking turns.

Use a safe word when you know you cannot take any more. Women don't have to quit just because they achieved bliss once or thrice. Men are typically done after one. Outlasting your woman is a good thing but not always necessary. Mutual bliss is not an expectation or pressured outcome, but awesome when it happens.

P.S. Came for the comments, stayed for the educational factor.worship
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I hope this is better than the copy of "How to pick up Trashy Women" that I grabbed last time. The mailman actually asked me what a little boy like me was doing with big boy smut like this?
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"or sometimes not at all" - Austin Powers
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I wonder if the author has blisters in his tongue 😜
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